It is not a hidden fact that we all lie, we all have lied to someone at some points but there are some people to whom we can’t lie or we don’t want to lie but sometimes the situation becomes that of a kind that people lie even if they want to. I have seen women lying to their best friends not because they are liars just because the situation made them and I have seen them telling the truth the next day, giving the reason “I can’t hide anything from you” but why women lie to their besties even if they don’t want to?
If a girl or women says that you are her best friend then she really means it because they don’t say these words to everybody, neither they trust everybody that much. Love does not mean a couple only, friends also do share love.
The first thing you should get that if your best friend has lied to you doesn’t means that she is not worth your trust anymore, just listen to her maybe she has a valid reason which made her lie to you. That’s what we’ll be discussing here that why women lie to their male best friends even if they don’t want to.
Reason For Why Women Lie
1.) She Is Afraid Of Losing You :-
Like said above, if she says you are her best friend then you really are. The biggest fear which comes to their mind while telling a bitter truth is that she might lose you are her best friend which ultimately end up with telling a lie to you. The fun fact is that they can’t even hide it from you for too long which shows how difficult was it for her to tell a lie.
2.) You May Get Angry :-
You too are responsible for this lie, if you are a kind of a person who gets angry on every small issue whether it is worth getting angry or not then she might feel that if she told you the truth you would again get red because of anger leading to a fight.
3.) Not To Spoil Your Day :-
There is no second thought behind that women sacrifice more than men. If she thinks anything can make you worry or you may get depressed about something then there is a huge chance she will lie to even if she wants you, just for your sake she’ll bear the pain alone.
4.) To Make You Jealous :-
This one is not serious but a fun thing which happens among all friends. No one likes to share their best friends, neither you nor your friend, this is where the fun begins. She might lie to you telling like she is talking to some guy and start praising him in front of you just to make you jealous and the best part is you always get jealous :-P. Her mission is accomplished.
5.) To Protect You From Getting Hurt :-
If she thinks that something might bother you then she will lie to you just to prevent you from getting hurt. It won’t be her benefit but yours.
Still we believe that a true relation, be it of friends or couple should not have lies in between, it should be crystal clear. If your female best friend has lied to you then first listen to her and try to understand and if you have ever lied to your male best friend then its time to tell them the truth.
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