We often face a dilemma that whether to forgive someone or not, that moment is really confusing perhaps because your trust has been betrayed very badly. It’s a human nature, we want others to forgive us for the wrongs we do but we are never able to convince ourselves that we should forgive others too. Such a confusing thing is our MIND but don’t stress over it because stress will give birth to frustration which will irritate and make you angry ultimately leading things to the worst side.
If someone did something wrong and you got hurt then it shows that you are emotionally attached with that person and these kind of decisions are not taken when the volcano of your anger is about to burst.
Love And Forgiveness Are Complementary to Each Other:-
1.) Forgive But Don’t Fall Blindly Again:
This world is cruel, very cruel. You cannot always see the real face behind the mask they are wearing. Yes definitely it is good and kind to forgive but don’t be too good enough to become a fool again. If someone has done something really wrong then along with forgiving them you should also make your mind alert for the future, just alert don’t try to make things on your own which literally have no logic.
2.) You Too Can Commit a Mistake:
Are you a perfectionist? This is the question you need to ask yourself. If you get the answer “Yes, I am” then I am sorry to say but you are arrogant and egoistic kind of person. Nobody is, we can be better than others but remember that there is also someone who is better than us too and if we can commit a mistake then others too. As simple as that.
3.) It Gives You Happiness:
Research study has given a fact that people who forgive live a healthier & happier life than those who don’t. If you cannot forgive someone for them then you can definitely forgive just for your happiness and trust me it feels really very good when we forgive someone but like I said earlier don’t become a fool again, if your partner do the same mistakes again and again, continues to show disrespect then there is no point in forgiving time and again. They will start taking you for granted.
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4.) It’s About Your Relationship:
Studies have shown that couples who don’t forgive ultimately become kind of those who always try to win an argument, fight a competition with their partner even as who is better. If you are married then just think what impact it will give on your kids (if you have) if you don’t forgive and start fighting and arguing with each other every time one of you makes a mistake. Sometimes it’s better to just let the things go with the wind.
Love and forgiveness are indeed complementary to each other if the forgiver and the perpetrator understands the real meaning of forgiveness. It is good that you can forgive or you want to forgive but that doesn’t mean you should not make them understand. Let them or make them realize their mistake, once they realize now you can forgive them without any hesitation. Realization is important because this ensures that the same mistake is less likely to be made in the future.